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Roleplaying: Part Two I’m sure that since the last article, you have had your mind racing with possibilities for your foray into roleplaying. So let’s talk through everything that you need to pull off the perfect act. It’s All About The Costume Although how you act is what drives the roleplaying, you need to look believable to pull it off. Start by going to your local costume shop or thrift store to look for the perfect ‘ingredients.’ Have a general idea in mind of what you need—accessories and all. That is, if you’re looking to be a maid, you not only need the outfit, but also the apron and a feather duster (oh la la). Make sure to try the outfits on before you buy them. You are trying to look good, and an ill-fitting costume might not make you feel the part as well. A word on materials that are sexy—some people love latex and leather. Find out what your ‘victim’ might like and incorporate that as much as you can. Of course, if you go to your local adult shop for your costume, you may find even more racy choices. Just don’t get too turned on in the dressing room. The Temptation Begins Understanding that you are setting a scene for a sexual encounter will give you great ideas to play it out as long as possible. If you’re able, you may want to hint at your plans well ahead of the actual date. For example, you may want to send hints—i.e. a set of handcuffs or a cleaning rag. Of course, you want to be discreet about it as well. If you talk ahead of time, you will want to leave small hints about your plans. This is sure to get their mind and their heart racing (among other things). Stepping Out Once you’re in the setting, you must begin the part. Have your partner for the evening move him or herself to the right location and then go change into your ‘gear.’ You may want to start some music as you walk out or whatever else might help to set the mood. Saunter out into view and begin your act. Forget who you are for a moment and become a sexier version. Make sure that they are acting their part as well. Although succumbing to your charms will surely not be too terribly difficult. Realize that in the end, you will be seducing the other person and that’s inevitable. Understand That… Not everyone will be the perfect acting accomplice in your roleplaying. And you may laugh or break out of your character. But it’s like a muscle. If you keep trying, you just get better and better. Realize that your fantasy or their fantasy might not work out perfectly the first few times, so talk about what could go better or what could be done to make it less humorous and more erotic. Practice does indeed make perfect.
This article was posted on January 24, 2006
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